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Yesterday was one month since I ended the relationship and walked away from an amazing man and one of my best friends. I miss him. That goes without saying. God is faithful to provide for my needs, though. I spent yesterday with God all day – drove out to a retreat center I go to [...]

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To all the boys who want to have their cake and eat it, too… I’m not for consumption I won’t be your balm Your rationality Your wisdom Your hope Your comfort Your shoulder to cry on Your emotional support Your best friend Twice removed. I won’t be your dumping ground Your punching bag Your go-to [...]

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In obedience to Jesus, there is just complete freedom; learning to love that freedom more and more as I embrace obeying Him. Love this song.  Learning to let go more and more… I’m being dragged down, down by the hand The hand of a golden giant man He’s crushing my knuckles Splitting my skin, he [...]

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separating fiction from fact lies from truth habits from freedom present reality from kingdom perspective desires from needs self-awareness from God-awareness immaturity from maturity selfishness from selflessness shadows of love from the real thing. – May 25, 2010

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Here again. Frustrated. And yet… Changed. No longer captive. Free to walk away. Free to laugh. Free to dance the dance. No longer pining, Hoping, Longing. Portending you care. – May 19, 2010

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Blindsided Confusion all too simply clear You, me I wasn’t even aware of the dance Hot-mama, the girls say Sugar-daddy lass So crass, the formulaic crystal house They use to enclose this sweet exchange And all I’m left with is the dream of parallel universes for all the different boys Where I make all things [...]

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Get out of my head You walked away Erase the years Erase the laughter The tears, the anger Ease the pain your joy brings Irony, sweet and biting You became all you promised you’d never be And me, I’m left holding the bag Why, why do this Addiction, cyclical, the drugs just change faces Love, [...]

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Completely healed. This particular album and artist was one of my favorites, but it was tied to a man (my boyfriend at the time) who broke my heart; of course, I let him. Learned a lot in the years since…but…I used to be able to not listen to this music without deep sorrow even though [...]

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Grieving the loss of a close friendship; seasons come, seasons go and so I must adjust. “I don’t need him” I state to a friend to try to help provide self comfort in the face of this painful loss. “Yes you do; you just aren’t dependent upon him; but you need him; that’s why this [...]

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Disconnect. Keep me compartmentalized Neatly wrapped up in a bow, Resting on the dusty recesses of your shelf Pull out when you desire; Then shove back when it’s inconvenient. Blind…dichotomistic…two faces to every man. Two sides to every story. Here, there, everywhere. Your charm can only get you so far. When does the facade fail? [...]

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I mentioned to one of my best friends he should read For Men Only to help him understand half of our disagreements over the years…I’ve read For Women Only to help me understand the male mind and it was insightful and every year that I re-read it, it’s a great refresher course for me. I [...]

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I want to be everything, to everyone. I know I cannot, but this does not seem, yet, to pervade my internal thought life or the emotional angst when I realize, yet again, I am not, cannot, and will not be able to meet others’ needs. A dear friend who moved away from friends and family [...]

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in a smashing pumpkins’ mood…one of their songs just came on…aptly reflects my demeanor. to say i’m having a rough time would be an understatement. to say God is always faithful is a reality. – sometimes i just need someone to hold me. sometimes i wish God had physical arms. but taking one day at [...]

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I’ve spent the last half hour alternating between quietly crying and sobbing, reading this story. What do I say to the author but acknowledgment of the grief I feel for him and his family and the promise to pray for them as the Holy Spirit brings them to mind? His story stirs up so many [...]

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What do you do to feel alive?

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Can you be in love with two people at the same time?

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A random poem I found while cleaning out some paperwork from my life…I don’t entirely agree with the underlying theology espoused here, but overall, I think it has some gems. No idea who wrote it or even where or how I have it my possession. :) But thought I’d share. “In God’s Time” Everyone longs [...]

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And you want to know the insidious thing about my own heart? I received the prayer request to a group email list-serve that I administer, and was set to approve it for mass distribution and was numb and thought to myself “I’ll pray for this student and her family” until I processed this was a [...]

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I came home last night to find out that a student from a neighboring campus was in a terrible accident.  Her name is Ruth.  She is currently in a drug-induced coma with broken ribs, punctured lungs, a punctured colon, severed vertebrae, and a blood clot in her brain. And all I can do right now [...]

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life is so strange, sometimes. i’m really trying to wrap my mind around it. and i’m just plain hungry for some c.s. lewis. i haven’t taken any proper time with his writings lately and i’m feeling a drought. i made a crustless pumpkin pie tonight. i’ve been saying i’d make one since february…heh. finally made [...]

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Wow. So today, just now, I quickly had tears well. I’m “spring cleaning” and came across a lot of handmade gifts from my younger brother who is seventeen years my junior, and his gift bag, handpainted, had a note attached to it that read, “i hope you will have a merry christmas with us.” Grah. [...]

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itching to dance… “let’s go ouuuuuuuuuuu-t tonight!” (rent) excited about a lot of things. nervous, a bit…well…”scared” isn’t the word…a bit apprehensive about how everything shall work…time shall tell…preparing to say a lot of “goodbyes”…excited about the next steps…hungry for life. my mother was right…she told me that because i had given so much of [...]

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A letter. [Take it or leave it. Thoughts free-flow...] I Turn Everything Over (Switchfoot) Monday found me on my knees again Breathing You in To blur the lines that mark where I begin And where You end No use in trying to pretend Come take me again ‘Cause rumor has it I’m not who I’ve [...]

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want you to know that i still love you india arie I think love never ends…it morphs, changes, but most often, never truly ends…our ways of dealing with it force us to compartmentalize, ignore, or bury it when it must change nature…maybe we use such absolutist terms to help us deal with the changes and [...]

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Writing calls my heart. Work responsibilities demand my attention. And such is life. What passion calls you? In what do you consistently and thoroughly get lost? What breathes life into you, sustains you, feeds your soul? Expands your mind, nourishes your body? What are you passionate about?

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What are the qualifications for being engaged? A ring and a date? The intentions to marry? The desire to marry? Give me a black and white answer, please. ;) A well-known radio personality that I listened to years ago harps on the ring and a date set for the ceremony as being the prerequisites for [...]

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Why do we always seem to want to run from suffering? – It seems pain and suffering produce a lot of the best music, writing and art in this world. A bit unrelated but perhaps not. Where would we be without pain and suffering to be the inspiration? And where would joy, euphoria and happiness [...]

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life never ceases to surprise me. – surprise! and it rolls on. barely time to catch my breath. roll with it. smile. and kiss the brand new day. this is the stuff of life. surprises you never saw coming. emotional roulette or fodder for laughter? perhaps both. grieve the past. ghosts breeze in to say [...]

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There is something incredibly romantic and lovely about receiving a handwritten letter in the mail in today’s age of emails, text messages, phone calls and IM chats. I received such a gift last night; flew upstairs delightedly to open it. I think I’m an old fashion girl at heart. =) Whenever friends send me cards [...]

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How important is it for friends and extended family to be a part of the wedding ceremony itself? Would you feel gypped if one of your best friends or family members decided to get married in a private, small ceremony and then celebrated on a later date with a big but low-key, inexpensive reception/party? There’s [...]

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